
So, I am finally posting about the Christmas Enrichment Meeting from last week! It was a beautiful evening, and I am so happy with how everything turned out! The women absolutely loved it, and I had several of them tell me that it was a perfect evening, and it couldn't have been any better.I could tell that everyone was enjoying themselves, and feeling the Christmas Spirit. 
The dinner turned out really well, despite all our worries, so if anyone ever wants to have a pasta buffet, I can tell you how to do it! I think our Holiday punch was almost the biggest hit of the night. It was slush...who doesn't love slush? It was very refreshing, and I think every last drop was slurped up! Yum!
I took pictures, but not as many as I thought. my memory card was full, so I kept having to delete pictures to make room for more. I really wish I could have gotten the full effect of the way it looked, because I thought it looked so pretty. I just love Christmas lights.
This is how we displayed all the envelopes that we had everyone's compliments in. We had 3 trees full of them. At the end of the night, we had everyone go find their envelope! It was really fun. There was a girl who was baptized not long ago, and she was standing by one of the trees looking at it. I asked her if she needed help finding her envelope. She said "Oh, I don't have one. I was looking for someone else's for them." I said, "Yes you do have one. Here it is" And I handed it to her. Her whole face lit up! She was so happy! That made me feel really good about deciding to do this whole comliment thing in the first place. I know for some it was a hassle to gather them all up, and put forth all the work to decorate the envelopes, and type up the compliments. Some felt it was a lot of "extras" that weren't necessary. But in that one moment, it made it all totally and completely worth it for me. That one woman felt special and loved. That was the whole point of the entire evening. She needed to know that she was loved, just like all of us do. We are all daughters of God. We are all sisters. We are all special, important and wonderful, and we all can touch each other's lives in ways that we may not ever know. Going the extra mile to get that message across was very much worth it to me.
It was a wonderful evening.
The program that night ended with a song that is my most favorite song this time of year. "A Long Time Ago" by Denise Orgill Ferguson. I have a story of how this song came to mean so much to me. Maybe 5 or 6 years ago, my ward in Indiana had a combined ward enrichment program similar to what we did. A girl wih a beautiful, crystal clear, angelic voice sang this song. I had never heard it before, and could not get it out of my head for a long time. The spirit was so strong when she sang it, that she got choked up during it and couldn't even sing part of it. I asked her later on, what the name of the song was and she told me, but she couldn't remember who it was by. I searched high and low for the song, online, at the church bookstore, and couldn't find it.
Two years ago, right before Christmas I miscarried. I was about 10 weeks along, and we were going to Blanding for Christmas, and we were planning on telling our families our news for Christmas. We weren;t leaving until Christmas Eve, which was a Saturday. The Sunday before, I started to miscarry. I opted to have a d&c so that I would be able to travel and not be worrying about all that goes along with a miscarriage. It was hard to call our families and tell them we had good news, but now we don't. Anyway...it was an emotional time for me due to this, and I was still very emotional about the loss of my brother only about 15 months before.
We were sitting in church on Christmas Day listening to the ward choir's musical program. All of a sudden, my long searched for song was being sung! I was so overcome with emotion that I started sobbing. I couldn't control myself no matter how hard I tried! I felt so embarrassed! Tony's mom was sitting by me and was all trying to comfort me, and I felt really dumb, but I could not stop. It was almost horrible really. Anyway...I was able to get a copy of the music from Tony's cousin who was the choir director, and I was very happy! I would love to sing this song myself, but it gets a bit high, and I don't think I could do it justice. I asked a lady in our ward to sing it special for our enrichment night, and she had actually sung it before, so it was perfect!
Here are the words.
A long time ago a mother lay by the side of a tiny king.
The wisemen would come, the shepherds kneel, and the angels in heav'n would sing.
Hosanna, alleluia, for unto you this night
A babe is born upon the earth to bring the world his light.
A long time ago a perfect man walked the shores of Galilee.
He taught men of faith to forgive, to love, and bade them "Come unto me."
Hosanna, alleluia, how great were all His days
For he had come to show to all the straight and narrow way.
A long time ago a mother knelt by the cross of the chosen king.
The soldiers were there, men mocked His throne, and the angels wept at the scene.
Hosanna, alleluia, how much he must have cared.
For all our sins, he freely bore and hung and suffered there.
And not long ago a mother knelt by the side of her child each night.
She taught her to pray, to worship God, and to follow the Savior's light.
Hosanna, alleluia, now when each day is through,
the love I have for Him above, I'll teach my child, to you.
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
Enrichment Night
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you know I used to take for granted all these ownderful programs I attendend. You really cannot comprehend what goes into them, until you do one! It looks fabulous-I wish I could have come too!(smiles)Thanks for sharing your real and deep feelings and experiences. I want to find that song now. I wish my speakers were compatible w/ my computer so I could hear things! ..until then. I wanted to write to you so badly about your brothers death (tony's mom had it in their newsletter) but it had been years since we had talked and I did not know what to say. Thanks for sharing it. I am so sorry. Miscarriages can be devastating and alot of emotional work( and I even miscarried alot sooner than you did) it defintely plays w/ the hormones. It is the desires of our hearts to be mommy's and have little spirits-Now we have our little GIRLS!! I love it, and love you for reminding me of all of these things!
Tony's mom has a newsletter? I've never seen one. I better ask her about it! Thanks for the kind words. Sometimes life is just tough, and it stinks!And sometimes it takes something really small to make a difference!
Kerry, that was a wonderful post...thanks for sharing. I'm soo glad your night went well. What a great way to feel the Christmas spirit!! I remember you sharing that story with me right after it happened and me feeling so horrible for you but now look at what you have!!! A beautiful boy and a girl. Life is good isn't it?
love,
Heidi
kerry, that is such a beautiful story about your song and the loss of your baby...I am so sorry about that! HOW SAD, but I am so glad you found your song!! I looooove singing, so if I were there I would sing it for you! :) Also, I know how it is to hear a song that you love and then not be able to find the music or the name of it. I can't stand that! So hooray!!! You found it!!! also, awesome about your enrichment night. great idea about the compliments...
Sounds like an awesome night and you put a lot of work into it! I wish we still lived in the same place, Kerry-- I miss you!
Kerry, thanks for sharing that song with us--I will definitely have to find it and add it to our Christmas collection. It brought tears to my eyes just reading the lyrics, so I can imagine what beautiful music would add to it. I also know what it's like to be so emotional after a miscarriage. I've had 2--the first we didn't tell anyone we were expecting, not even our parents, and then had to do exactly what you did--say well, we did have good news, but now we have bad news. Now we have a policy to at least tell our parents right away.
On another emotional note, I just found out from one of my good friends that her youngest brother died in a car accident on Thanksgiving night--he was 20. I immediately thought of Derrick. I have no idea what it's like to lose a brother suddenly, but I do know what it's like to lose a cousin suddenly, as well as a grandparent, a friend--and those are bad enough, so I can only imagine. My friend had just had a baby 3 days before her brother passed away. So bittersweet. I wish there was something I could do--any ideas?
And good job on your enrichment night! Looks fabulous!
Julie, the biggest thiing I can say is to do something...it doesn't matter what! The worst and most hurtful thing is to do nothing. People don't need their space. They need to know that people are aware of what they have just had happen to them. It's so hard when something like this happens to see the world going on around you when yours has suddenly come to a complete stop. My friend Heidi called me so soon after i found out even (news travels fast!) and just cried with me. It meant so much to know that she cared, and was willing to just let me know that she knew that my life as I knew it had just totally changed. A card, a ohone call, a hug, and even the standard "I am so sorry" means so much, you never know. It really is the little things that mean the most. I remember looking out the window one day to see my neighbor (Thanks Brett Bell!) mowing our lawn. It meant a lot, it really did. Kayli, I don't know if I ever said anything about that to you guys.Please tell Brett how much the gesture meant, and I still think of it. Anyway...I am sorry to hear about your friend. SHe will need a lot of love and support for a long time...dealing with post-partum depression on top of grieving, she will really need friends to love her to get her through it. It took me about 3 years to start feeling back to my somewhat normal self again, and I really do have awesome friends to thank for keeping me afloat. Sorry so long! Email me if you need more advice!
I'm here ANY time you need me to cry with you! I love you Kerry!
Love,
Heidi
Kerry,
Thanks for sharing about your enrichment. I love new ideas. I would love to hear what you are doing for March. I need to start planning. . .:)I have a few ideas, but nothing has been decided.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and feelings and how something as simple as a song helped you. I appreciated you being a sounding board for me when I miscarried even though you were hundreds of miles away. It was a hard thing to go through.
Do you have the song in a digital format so you could add it to your play list or share who wrote the song? I would love to listen to it. The words are beautiful.
Andrea, I don't have a recording of it. I wish I did...I would be listening to it all the time! I googled it and it came up on an old
tape with Julie de Azevedo singing it. I can't find it anywhere to download...if anyone does, let me know too!
Kerry--
Thank you so much for the advice.
And I found the song in the iTunes store and added it to our Christmas collection. It is beautiful! There were several with the same title, but since you had mentioned Julie de Azevedo, I just downloaded that one without listening to see if the others are the same song or not. If they are, there are several versions in the iTunes store!
Ok, I am lame. Can you use itunes for mp3 players that aren't ipods? I am still not super savvy with this stuff. I don't have an ipod, but I do have a different player.
Hi Kerry,
This is Aaron. Had a good time with your old friends the Moore's the other night Christmas caroling and such. Anyhow, to answer your question, you're right, it would be difficult to listen to an itunes downloaded song on a regular mp3 player. If iTunes is the only place you can find the song, and you don't want to buy the entire CD what you'll have to do is
1. Buy the song from iTunes
2. Burn the song onto an audio CD
3. Import the song from your CD back to iTunes and make sure you "import the song as an mp3." Then you should be able to transfer it to you mp3 player.
Good luck!
-Aaron
Wow! Thanks for the step by step! Now I know for future reference!I miss hangin with the Moore's. You are very lucky to live near them. I will have to hang with them vicariously through you guys!
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